What is the purpose of your life? It’s a big question, a question some people say they don’t know the answer to. Often it is because they haven’t spent enough time listening to themselves carefully and in silence. Deep listening is very useful here. Deep listening is the practice of listening without judgement or advice. Before you can listen deeply to someone else you need to listen to yourself. Sit down, clear your mind and ask yourself in silence “What do I really want what is my life for?” Intention will emerge if you go deep enough.
Monthly Archives: July 2018
Tony Robbins says “In sport I’ve found success is 80 percent psychology and 20 percent skills,”
All sports are a mental game, especially elite sports. For this reason it is important for people involved in sport to develop a strong inner game or mental toughness. You see all the time, those who have “great talent”, but rarely play up to their full potential. The problem is that in sport people are not educated about the mental game mostly because their instructors or coaches didn’t stress the importance of mental toughness when their student’s were learning to play.
In Golf your decisions, thoughts, images, and feelings set up each swing. Mental training helps players develop key mental skills to compliment the mechanics or physical aspects of their game. What most people do not know is that mental training isn’t just for players who have challenges with their game, but also for players who want to improve their overall performance. Coaches and players have used mental training for years to gain a competitive edge. Confidence, trust, focus, and composure are the everyday lessons I teach my clients. Understanding these components allows players to become mindful and improve their performance.
To develop mindfulness in sport there are several mental skills that you can learn. Sports people playing in the zone are composed, in control, confident, and focused. Most have experienced “the zone”, if only for a short time. And everyone can learn to develop a mindset that helps them enter “the zone” more frequently by learning how to be confident, focused, and in control of game.
Mentally tough sports people are at an advantage in competition because they have…
- An awareness of the zone and the feelings associated with playing in the zone.
- High self-confidence or a strong belief in their skills or ability to play well.
- The ability to fully immersed in the task or totally concentrate in the present.
- A narrow focus of attention or the ability to focus on one specific thought without distraction.
- The ability to perform effortlessly or let it happen when it counts.
- Emotional control or the ability to remain calm under pressure.
- Clear and decisive mind or not over thinking and doubting their decisions.
- The ability to refocus or collect themselves after mistake.
- Fun, whether they are 10th or 1st.
A strong mental game is crucial for all. To develop a strong mental game it takes commitment, learning how your brain works and what drives you. Through mindfulness you can then learn to be in the moment, without distractions. Be in “the zone” and be your best. The key is to find access to your mental game, then apply it, practice it and use it on a daily basis.
I have just read a passage from a book which describes a great way to “be” and one I aspire too. “be in flow and live fully in the present moment. Respond and adapt to what is happening around you rather than reacting and fighting against it. Let situations speak to you, observe and learn. Always be upbeat, kind and generous. Yet hold others accountable without making them wrong.”