Couples often seek help at a point where they believe their relationship is beyond repair. Communication has broken down, they lack trust, and intimacy no longer exists. Without help we can feel locked in to a negative spiral. Marriage coaching drastically increases your chance of resolution and future happiness.
Couples seek coaching for a wide range of reasons. More often than not, they need help because they are having trouble communicating effectively. Consequently, there is a break down in one or many parts of the relationship.
Nicola, our expert Relationships Coach, often hears how couples have lost time for one another in their busy lives, the trust is gone, they feel betrayed, their sexual lives and desire have diminished. They fight and argue about the same things and never find resolution. Some issues Nicola may address are: communication, conflict resolution, money and finances, sex and intimacy issues, fighting and anger issues, gender roles, addiction, in-law struggles, religion, values, pregnancy, and many more.
The shift in a relationship can bring about many emotions, including sadness, confusion, and despair. Nicola addresses everything that you’re feeling, as well as your concerns, and collaboratively sets a plan and goals to get the relationship back on track.
What is expected of you
A serious level of commitment is required. It is important that you are open to learning, growing, and receiving feedback that will relate directly to your role in the relationship. It is expected that you will try not to be defensive, to communicate when you are, and to commit to altering the behaviours that are damaging to the relationship. When these conditions are met, we have an excellent chance that the relationship will wind up in a stronger place than it’s ever been in before.
These matters are intensely private. But if you or anyone in your team, family or friends is facing increased mental health pressure from relationship issues, you owe it to yourself and them not to ignore it. We urge you to encourage them to reach out for help.
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